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3 min readThe dreaded anticipation, presence, and aftermath of a hurricane is devastating to communities, families, and states. But so is a narcissist. Viewing the storm from a distance, you can see it’s massiveness, intensity, and potential destructibility. However, while in the middle of the storm, it canada goose outlet in uk is hard to know when you have experienced the worst of the destruction. The same is true for a relationship with a narcissist. Here are six other similarities.Their reputation precedes them. If there is canada goose outlet store calgary ever an ideal time for a politician to release a self deprecating scandal to the news media, it is during the preparations for a hurricane because the hurricane will overshadow any other news. With reminders of previous hurricanes and their subsequent damage, predictions of the current path and its continual changes, and countless photos of empty shelves, boarded up windows, and abandoned streets, there is an absence of any other news information. Not only does the reputation of a hurricane precede itself, it dominates. The same is true for narcissists. Just prior to a hurricane hitting, the weather is beautiful. There are clear skies, an absence of humidity, the temperature is just right, and it is inviting to be outdoors. But behind the canada goose outlet parka faade is a powerful canada goose outlet force that only the animals seem to sense. Birds fly in the opposite direction, smaller canada goose outlet winnipeg creatures take cover, and even the crickets and frogs become silent. The calm before the storm is eerie. It is an indication that the dangerous hurricane is near. This is very similar canada goose outlet paypal to the initial feel a person has canada goose outlet store uk while dating canada goose outlet uk fake a narcissist. There seems to be nothing wrong and everything looks perfect. The initial bands of wind and rain are shocking yet manageable. First time hurricane survivors tend to canada goose outlet vancouver let their guard down because they wrongly believe that this is the worst part of the storm. They might venture outside, posting pictures of bending trees, arrogantly assuming that others are overreacting. This is like a sucker punch. As the eye canada goose outlet toronto of the storm approaches, everything rapidly escalates as the winds intensify and the rain blows sideways in heavy sheets. Narcissists use the same tactic. The idea is to set their opponent off balance by allowing canada goose outlet 80 off them to think the narcissist has thrown an initial powerful punch, but they have not. Once again there is an eerie calm amidst blackness. Even canada goose outlet kokemuksia if it is daytime, the sky is dark and low as the winds become silent and the rains cease (some hurricanes even have clear or yellow skies in the eye). Depending on the size and speed of the storm this can last for a few canada goose outlet in new york minutes to almost a half hour. Make no mistake: it is the eye in the center of a storm that determines the strength. The more controlled an eye, the more powerful the storm. At the heart of every narcissist is a deep rooted insecurity. Just like a hurricane, canada goose outlet sale the deeper the insecurity the more controlling the narcissist. Just because canada goose outlet in toronto a narcissist reveals that insecurity, it does not mean a person is safe from attack. The violent nature of the storm following the eye now seems to have been minimized in comparison to the front. Literally out of nowhere, things rapidly escalate to a level well beyond what was expected. This is when trees fall, loose objects become projectiles, roofs collapse, windows shatter, screened in rooms cave, and the flooding begin. As the bands of wind and rain sweep around the eye, their direction changes, causing even more damage. It isn’t over until the last band dissipates and the skies clear once again. Once a canada goose outlet online store review https://www.salecanadagooseoutlets.com/ narcissist feels exposed or vulnerable canada goose outlet trillium parka black (which is what happens during the appearance of the eye), they attack with such force that it leaves a permanent emotional canada goose outlet eu scar. The light of the day brings clarity as to the extent of the damage. Some have more damage than others and worse, some are completely devastated. Stories of survival are recounted, curfews are lifted, neighbors’ band together to help each other, electrical companies work overtime, once blocked roads are canada goose outlet jackets cleared, trash is picked up off the ground, and a new normal ensues. But the memory of the storm lives forever so much so that even the mention of a pending storm clears grocery store shelves days canada goose outlet usa in advance. This PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder) reaction is common for anyone living in the area. It is also true also for anyone who has lived through a narcissistic relationship. Some are more powerful than others, some have greater influence, or some weaken just before impact. Nonetheless, it is good to be prepared and aware by planning for the worst and hoping for the best.Christine Hammond, MS, LMHCChristine is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor by the State of Florida with over fifteen years of experience in counseling, teaching and ministry.She works primarily with exhausted women canada goose outlet online uk and their families in conflict situations to ensure peaceful resolutions at home and in the workplace. She has blogs, articles, and newsletters designed to assist in meeting your needs.Most Popular PostsHow To Heal From a Narcissistic Parent 7 Steps to Helping a Friend Change for the Better The Dysfunctional Bond Between Narcissists and Co Dependents The Sociopathic Art of Deception Are You Suffering from Pre Hurricane Stress (PHS).

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